I haven't really blogged anything in about a month now - the main reason being I just didn't have anything nice to say. Now since this is my blog, and for the most part it is anonymous - I can say what I want to say!
Here is an update - I could care less about certain subjects.
Lets start with infertility - I don't want kids. I am very comfortable in living my life in the style that I have grown accustomed. That being said...most of the stuff that you women OBSESS over mean nothing to me. I don't care that you can't have kids, I don't care about your cycle, I don't care about your miscarriages or failed adoptions. I DON'T CARE! I don't want to hear about them in EVERY SINGLE conversation we have - especially when we are out in public around people you've never met before that are my friends from other circles. Did I mention I don't care?? Oh and the fact that you can't have a single conversation - ever - without mentioning your infertility makes me not want to spend any time around you or even answer my phone.
You're being "busy and overbooked" - yeah lets go ahead and throw it out there that if you volunteer for something and then spend every chance you get complaining about said commitment and how you don't have the time for it or you have no idea why you said yes -- do yourself and the commitment a favor and step down from the position.
Having suggestions for improvement on an "international replicatible system" for a networking group is asinine. If you look at a chapter or group - and are given documents with a Code of Ethics and Contract For Profitability before your membership is completed, it is safe to say that you know EXACTLY what is expected of you and to what standards you will be held accountable. If you don't care for one or two of the items it is worth mentioning, however if you disagree with the entire intent, purpose and system of doing business than perhaps that is NOT the group for you.
Divorce - now who am I to judge, I have never been married. I am now single after being in a seven year, serious, committed relationship. For over a year I wanted out of that relationship and when I finally decided it was time to get out, it took me another three months to finally get my life together and get out of the relationship. My point is that after being miserable -I got out. I did what was right for me - I evaluated things from my perspective, my morals, my dreams, my life in general. It seems to me that if you're unhappy and counseling hasn't made things better, than perhaps divorcing is the best option. Why suffer through life with someone who isn't making you happy??
That ladies and gentlemen is just a snippet of how I really feel...if you don't like it, well then move on to the next post which is probably back to the bubbly happy me.
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